(This is a blog post that I wrote out a month ago but haven´t had a real computer to type it out on. Here it is. Please forgive the poor grammar and crazy changes in tenses, these are because of the spanish keyboard and the difficulty of retyping a recap of a recap)
A lot has gone down since the last time I posted. The main thing was that Kayla and I started taking care of a little boy named Gilmer. A few weeks ago, the church group from the city I was talking about came down to Zacapa so we could all go up to the mountains to visit the Beene´base there. So we went up and did some home visits. At one of the homes we went to we saw a little boy with one eye who was clearly starving; he had swollen feet, hands, and stomach. Kayla then explained his story to the group:
When Gilmer was a baby, he got badly malnourished which often happens in the mountains when a woman has two babies right after one another. The Beenes came across him in the mountains (with his family) when he as around 2(?) and his eye was being pushed out of his head from malnutrition and parasites. He needed surgery and was in excruciating pain - he wouldn´t look at anyone of talk, jus tsit with clenched fists because every blink was a nightmare on that bad eye. So (obviously with the permission of his parents) they took him in to get him healthy again as he couldnt get operated on until he was a bit more nurished. So he got nice and plump, and he got surgery to remove the bad eye and got a glass one put in, and went back to his family. However for unknown reasons throughout the years the malnutrition kept popping up again and the Beenes would periodically take him in for a couple months to help him get well again (please note- he has very loving, caring, hard-working and good-hearted parents and I really don`t think any mal-intent on their part is the cause of his health issues).
So back to being at his house with the church group on the home visit. If you haven´t seen pictures, he looks like a 3 year old but is actually 9. I wasn´t sure he could talk, because as Kayla held him he just swayedd his head and made cooing noises. But afer a little prompting from his papa he sang 4 songs in a row for everyone there. He has the most amazing singing voice. So anyway, Kayla asked his parents about his health and they asked if she could take him for a couple months to make him better. We went back down the mountain to get some basic paperwork and returned a few days later to pick up Gilmer. He was really happy and excited, even though the ride down the mountain was filled with narrowly-missed cliff-tumblings on the washed out road (here´s my official props to Kayla Beene, best driver in the whole wide world).
So now we had Gilmer! Me and Kayla spent a week taking care of him at the Zacapa dorms. This including finding adorable clothing, snuggling, de-licing, feeding, force-feeding (there are starving kids who are picky eaters, who knew), stool-sample taking (Kayla volunteered me for this job, I assume as an opportunity for me to repay her for getting me down the mountain alive), and lots of singing! I definitely fell in love. However, a week after we picked up Johnny the Beenes were off to the States for the month of February and I was going to be off to Casa Guatemala, an orphanage and school in Rio Dulce. So the plan was to drop Gilmer off at a nutrition center, which we were actually planning to do within the first couple days but somehow never got around to it (may or may not have had to do with levels of adorableness). So then, Rocky got a brilliant idea when she remembered that she and Michael had brought kids to Casa Guatemala years ago. Why not bring Gilmer to Casa G and I could be there with him? So we took Gilmer with us as we went to the base in Rio Dulce, and he helped us tile and ride on the jetskis (I´ve never seen a smile that big before).
And then, just like that, it was time to leave the Beenes. They brought me to Hotel Backpackers (the hostel affiliated with the orphanage, about a 20 minute boatride downriver from Casa Guatemala. This is where I would be staying while I volunteered and I would boat back and forth each day) and after prayers, hugs, and many many thanks I left my Floridian-Guatemalan family with Gilmer in my arms.
Gilmer was NOT happy to leave Kayla, but with some icecream bribery he was eventually persuaded to get in the boat with me at the hostel so we could head to the orphanage. When we got to the orphanage, he was swept up by the friendly nurses and I was assured he was in good hands as I headed back to the hostel.
The next day I headed back to the orphanage. That place is so cool. It´s in the jungle, there are always monkeys passing through. It´s an orphanage and a school, so on a school day there are about 250 kids there, as some come from surrounding villages. Of those 250 about 120 live at Casa Cuatemala, and of them only about 40 are true orphans and the rest board there for school. There are a bunch of volunteers who live there too and care for the kids (mut be over 24 and there at least 3 months). These volunteers are amazing, they work so so hard with so much patience and love, it´s very inspiring.
The first day I went and found Gilmer and spent the day with him. It was then decided that it would be best for him to start going to school. He´s 9 and has never been, so they put him in Kinder (pre-school). The first 8 days there I kind of worked as his EA almost, helping him learn to colour and make shapes in class, helping him play with other kids, etc. Gilmer doesn´t have a lot fo social skills, so these first few days were a huge adjustment and struggle for him. He has a full vocabulary but refuses to talk, even when he really needs something, just out of stubborness. So it had been a challenge to not baby him and try to integrate him, show him that he has to talk to people. He´s grown so much just in the short time he´s been there, he started talking to some of the other kids (all of which are very fascinated by him and extremely friendly towards him).
And then, Liz showed up!! I was sooo happy to see her. After my first few days volunteering she joined me at the orphanage and she was so amazing and inspiring with the kids within her first 3 minutes there.
The last few days I haven´t been spending all day with Gilmer though, so that he will learn to be like the other kids and not be as dependent (his parents wanted him to continue going to school there after I leave). This has been hard for him, he stubbornly refused to go to some classes and cried a lot. So the last few days I´ve been teaching library class with Liz. And as I´ve not only been with Gilmer I´ve gotten to know more of the other kids, who are all so amazing. I love them all. And some have had the hardest go in life but are just so joyful. I feel so lucky to be here and know them.
Right now I´m at a hospital 3 hour away with Gilmer, as I assume he´s getting some test done but I´m not really sure. I was sent on a bus and told to come stay with him at the hospital for a few days. The poor guy was wailing in his crib when I got here, he was terrified. What a sweet blessing to hold his hand and be able to alleviate some fear or sadness. I can´t believe I get to be a part of these amazing organizations and amazing people´s lives. It´s so incredible to witness the different people and organizations making such an impact, and just get inspired by what I see.
(end of February 12 Blog post)
(Beginning of present day factual insertations and update)
What happened with Gilmer was that on one of the days I wasn´t spending a lot of time with him the orphanage decided to have him taken to the hospital to get treated for some nasty lung problems and also general checkups for malnutrition etc. I didn´t know any of this but they had asked me if I could go and stay with him there so he wouldn´t be alone and would have someone he knew. I stayed there with him 3 days and then a teacher from the school came to relieve me so I could go back to the hostel for a break. Then I found out that his parents had come to the hospital to pick him up and bring him home. It was really sad to just abruptly learn I´d probably never see him again and not be able to say goodbye. But also really good, because that situation was perfect for Gilmer to see how much his family loved him that they would come to pick him up. So now he´s back home, and right now the plan and hope is for my family to sponsor him, so his family can always have enough food and medical attention to make sure he doesn´t get sick, as well as to hire a tutor so he can continue to go to school!
I´ll be amazed if this is understandable to anyone! Thanks for reading my illogical ramblings.